Weekly Message 2/11-2/17

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner this week.

It doesn’t matter whether you have a partner or romantic interest, Valentine’s Day is a wonderful time to show your love to the people around you.

I got word “reconcile” as this week’s message.

You might regret some word you said to your friends or children or loved one.

You might have some arguments or disagreements with coworkers or neighbors.

Or might reconcile with yourself.

In this week, whatever reasons and with whine, you might have a chance to reconcile with someone.

If you see the chance, please take the chance.

You will see some difference from the past.

So, please show your love.

Have a magical week!

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Full moon message October 2018

Full moon is beautiful and powerful.

You probably have heard many things about how full moon affects our life.

We, human being, are quite arrogant that easily forget how small we are.

We think we can do everything and anything by ourselves.

But, wait, we always need someone, something and sometimes good weathers or sometimes nasty things to grow or things done.

But, we just forget.

People behind the scenes.

People who actually help you to succeed.

People who love you.

Things make you happy or comfort.

Weather, flowers, natures, airs etc to make our life beautiful and make us alive.

Don’t forget we cannot live alone.

We are always with someone and something and moreover with this earth and the universe.

Once again.

Don’t forget people and things you have now and work behind your scenes.

Appreciate them.

And, another thing if you have someone who you like or dislike but you don’t know why but feel threaten or intimidated.

They might be lights for you or people who awaken you, open your heart and show different world than you have now.

So, if you have someone like that, then, look at yourself deeply.

There are many opportunities that you can grow and you get better you.

So, don’t avoid to see yourself. If you see yourself deeply, then, you will find your own lights to shine.

So, it is a time for you to appreciate people surround you and check yourself fearlessly.

You will know how you are precious being.

And if you can see yourself deeply even your dark sides and when you embrace your shadows, you will be closer to whole and real you.

Free from your past

I believe we all have some past experiences that we hardly forget or forgive.

But, somehow we manage to live now and move forward to what you wanna be.

But, sometimes, people cannot forget what happened to them.

How other people hurt them.

Then, stack the situations and emotions.

Usually, it causes of physical or mental illness eventually or cannot see some other good things available for them.

So, their energies are stack in the pasts.

Pasts hunt them or they choose to be in the pasts.

Either way, it is not healthy at all.

Some people choose to take counseling or healing session.

But, some are not.

One thing I can say is whether you take counseling or not, take healing or not, or don’t take any help, please forgive what happened in your pasts.

We cannot change what happened in the pasts.

Only we can do is whether you can move on with peace and love or without them or stack in the pasts.

Which one you wanna choose?

I write about forgiveness many times, but there is a reason.

Forgiving something and someone is quite difficult, but quite powerful.

Again, forgiving something and someone does not mean you lose or you have to get along with someone who hurt you.

Just let them go.

And, choose new path you can get with love and light.

And, forgiveness is one of great love you can give.

When you can forgive what happened in your pasts including your past lives, your life will be much lighter and your life will be filled with more love from God.

So, again please forgive.

Relationship is

Friend of mine once asked me what relationship is when she had problems with her own fears relate to her boyfriend long time ago.

So, I told her relationship is like two people holding a cup together.

In this case, the cup is not plastic as you can imagine.

Maybe China that really precious and beautiful but sensitive and fragile.

You can imagine how hard to hold a cup with two people.

We need to keep balance, and when one hand gets tired another hand needs to support another hand and make sure to not drop it.

I believe that we can say same thing for our any relationship.

Unfortunately or fortunately, relationship cannot really visible.

This is why often we get misunderstood and makes things complicated.

But, if you imagine that our relationship is a beautiful cup that we wanna treat well and keep the beauty forever, then we know what to do.

Building relationship is taking a time and effort.

Sometimes, maybe not so beautiful, maybe ugly.

But, both parties need effort to the relationship works.

We all have egos, prides and fears, but if you know how your cup is precious, then, please think about what is the benefits to keep that egos that affect the cup.

So, please look at your heart to release them and build strong relationship with your loved ones.

You don’t have to be in rush to do that.

But, take one steady step toward to the cup.

If you do that, then, your partner knows how you value your relationship even taking a time. Because, true love can overcome any difficulties.

And this makes the holding hands and the cup stronger than before.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV)

Be yourself 

People often say we have to be ourselves, be authentic etc.

Yes, we should be.

But, I feel many people are confused difference between what being authentic and be selfish. 

We always should respect others even being yourselves.

We always compassionate others and kind to others even when you are authentic.

Being yourselves does not mean you can hurt others or disrespect them, or treat like doormat.

I believe being yourself is more like treating you as you.

Saying no to others when you feel unconfortanle, or not put you into some boxs that labled you as like typical something or someone like typical some nationality, mom or dad or someone’s expectations.

We have to know the difference between being your self and being selfish.

People who think they can do whatever they do tend to they do not really care about others.

But, this is not what people say be yourself.

We always have to respect others and ourselves.

I believe this is fundamental of any type of relationship including with yourself.