Message for 2018

It has been already a month since we started 2018….but, some people say real New Year starts from Imbolg the cross Quarter Day.

And, on January 31st, we will have full moon, blue moon and eclipse.

I feel energy will change vividly after this moon.

Even we have started 2018, some of you feel this year is slow start or things are not going fast etc.

If you feel something like that, then you might be able to feel big difference before and after this full moon.

It is like your real 2018 will start after this.

So, if you wonder what is going on this January, then, I want you to expect something change in good ways from February.

And, before the moon, if your old feelings and emotions come up, then, release them.

Don’t be afraid to facing these feelings, because they need to go.

And, you need to receive something new.

I hope your 2018 filled with lots of loves, joys and happinesses.

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Miracle

When we think about miracle, then, it is like Jesus walking on the water, some breads coming from the sky, getting good job without any effort etc…

But, actually, miracle is not like that.

We can find miracle in our daily life.

Because, we should realize we ourselves are miracle, and being on this planet is miracle.

We think being in this world is really easy and not so special.

But, if you see in this world, we can easily find many conflicts and people who suffer from these.

Many children cannot even live or cannot be born.

Many people decide to stop living, or have no choice.

So, breathing now is already miracle.

Being on this planet is already miracle.

If you realize these and appreciate this miracle, then, you will find more appreciations and blessings in your life.

When you realize more blessings in your life, your life will be different from now.

You will be happier than you feel now.

Glow from within

Sometimes, we jealous other people because we feel they have everything we want or do.

And, sometimes, people don’t like when other people do well.

Then, sometimes, they just try to pull other people down, or push away, mean to them, etc…do something negative.

But, if you wanna stand out with some light, then, first you should realize what you can do and cannot do.

And, know that these people who seem successful work hard when you cannot see them.

And, they usually know what they can do and good at.

So, first, know what you can do and good at.

And, if you wanna do something you are not good at, then work hard instead of jealous and do some negative things to others.

Even you do some negative things to others, you cannot glow truly.

Maybe, you can stand out some short time, but, that light is false.

So, think something you can glow within.

Everything is from you, not others or outside.

Everything is in you.

Message for 9/11-9/17

It has been some time since September started.

I feel this month will be calm, smooth kinda month.

But, it does not mean your life is quiet.

Maybe, you will have some good news, then you will be happier than ever.

But, even you feel you don’t have anything , or you don’t get any good news, wait a minuet and look at what you have now.

I know you might be tired of this phrase, but what you do is for what you will get.

So, even you think it is boring or not what you wanna do, but keep walking what you do now.

If you stop, then, you will not see you might accomplish in near future.

When you wanna give up, it means goal is closer than you think.

So, just one more step.

Please keep walking.

God is working behind the scene.

God is fighting for you.

So, believe in God.

Have faith.

And, do what you need to do.

Then, God will take care of the rest.

Have a beautiful week!

Be yourself 

People often say we have to be ourselves, be authentic etc.

Yes, we should be.

But, I feel many people are confused difference between what being authentic and be selfish. 

We always should respect others even being yourselves.

We always compassionate others and kind to others even when you are authentic.

Being yourselves does not mean you can hurt others or disrespect them, or treat like doormat.

I believe being yourself is more like treating you as you.

Saying no to others when you feel unconfortanle, or not put you into some boxs that labled you as like typical something or someone like typical some nationality, mom or dad or someone’s expectations.

We have to know the difference between being your self and being selfish.

People who think they can do whatever they do tend to they do not really care about others.

But, this is not what people say be yourself.

We always have to respect others and ourselves.

I believe this is fundamental of any type of relationship including with yourself.

Happiness

Happiness is from within, not from outside.

But, many people do not know this.

Because, I know many people who are always not happy even they have their ideal jobs, or dream spouses or do whatever they wanna do. 

They always complain something about in their life, holding something really negative memories or feelings.

You know what?

Everyone has bad memories, but if we do not give these memories power, then, they are just memories and they don’t have any power over you.

But, people who always unhappy usually give power to their bad memories or feelings.

Or usually these people see “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” and they compare to other people to find how they are lack of something or unhappy etc.

Of course, we are human being, so we can be in some dark places or envy other people sometimes.

But, if we continually do these things, then, we will not know how happy we are.

And, when we feel happiness, then, we have more smiles on our faces.

This attracts more people and happiness.

We don’t have to be positive all the time.

We don’t need to smile all the time.

If we feel sad, desapointed, etc, then feel the feelings.

But, remember you are the one who can make you happy.

So, when you feel it is the time to smile, then start smiling again.

And, count your happiness and blessings.

And, appreciate these things in your life.

When you truly feel you are happy, then, you show it to the world.

And, you will attract more happiness.

This is what we call law of attractions. 

So, be happy.

Your Happiness is always from you. 🙂 

Forgiveness 

When we are hurt by others, then, we usually get angry, feel sad, dessapointed, betrayed, etc…easily go to some dark places.

How much you hurt is almost equal to how much you cannot forgive the people or situation.

Many people store these feelings for a long time, and live in these feeling and memories.

But, is it really good for us?

Living in unforginess is not good.

Each time, you see the people or in the similar situation, then your feelings come up.

Yes, these protect us, too in order to prevent get hurt again.

But, then, we close our heart, stop trusting people, put ourselves more miserable states. 

So, try to forgive the people you hurt, the situations make you sad or embarrassed etc, and then forgive yourself who cannot forgive these till now.

Forgiving someone is not equal to you need to get along with someone who hurt you.

You don’t have to be with them. 

Forgiving someone and something is for you.

You don’t have to feel again the same feeling that you experienced.

After forgive completely, then, you can keep peace in your mind even when you see these who hurt you.

Storing hurts, pains, sadness, betrayal, etc is not good for you and your health.

These feelings hurt your body and easily steal your smiles. 

So, try to forgive some people who hurt you and situations that force you to be in dark places.

Because, you do not deserve these.

So, forgiving them to get more happiness in your life.

And, your happiness is the most important thing for your life.