Be yourself 

People often say we have to be ourselves, be authentic etc.

Yes, we should be.

But, I feel many people are confused difference between what being authentic and be selfish. 

We always should respect others even being yourselves.

We always compassionate others and kind to others even when you are authentic.

Being yourselves does not mean you can hurt others or disrespect them, or treat like doormat.

I believe being yourself is more like treating you as you.

Saying no to others when you feel unconfortanle, or not put you into some boxs that labled you as like typical something or someone like typical some nationality, mom or dad or someone’s expectations.

We have to know the difference between being your self and being selfish.

People who think they can do whatever they do tend to they do not really care about others.

But, this is not what people say be yourself.

We always have to respect others and ourselves.

I believe this is fundamental of any type of relationship including with yourself.

Happiness

Happiness is from within, not from outside.

But, many people do not know this.

Because, I know many people who are always not happy even they have their ideal jobs, or dream spouses or do whatever they wanna do. 

They always complain something about in their life, holding something really negative memories or feelings.

You know what?

Everyone has bad memories, but if we do not give these memories power, then, they are just memories and they don’t have any power over you.

But, people who always unhappy usually give power to their bad memories or feelings.

Or usually these people see “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” and they compare to other people to find how they are lack of something or unhappy etc.

Of course, we are human being, so we can be in some dark places or envy other people sometimes.

But, if we continually do these things, then, we will not know how happy we are.

And, when we feel happiness, then, we have more smiles on our faces.

This attracts more people and happiness.

We don’t have to be positive all the time.

We don’t need to smile all the time.

If we feel sad, desapointed, etc, then feel the feelings.

But, remember you are the one who can make you happy.

So, when you feel it is the time to smile, then start smiling again.

And, count your happiness and blessings.

And, appreciate these things in your life.

When you truly feel you are happy, then, you show it to the world.

And, you will attract more happiness.

This is what we call law of attractions. 

So, be happy.

Your Happiness is always from you. 🙂 

Forgiveness 

When we are hurt by others, then, we usually get angry, feel sad, dessapointed, betrayed, etc…easily go to some dark places.

How much you hurt is almost equal to how much you cannot forgive the people or situation.

Many people store these feelings for a long time, and live in these feeling and memories.

But, is it really good for us?

Living in unforginess is not good.

Each time, you see the people or in the similar situation, then your feelings come up.

Yes, these protect us, too in order to prevent get hurt again.

But, then, we close our heart, stop trusting people, put ourselves more miserable states. 

So, try to forgive the people you hurt, the situations make you sad or embarrassed etc, and then forgive yourself who cannot forgive these till now.

Forgiving someone is not equal to you need to get along with someone who hurt you.

You don’t have to be with them. 

Forgiving someone and something is for you.

You don’t have to feel again the same feeling that you experienced.

After forgive completely, then, you can keep peace in your mind even when you see these who hurt you.

Storing hurts, pains, sadness, betrayal, etc is not good for you and your health.

These feelings hurt your body and easily steal your smiles. 

So, try to forgive some people who hurt you and situations that force you to be in dark places.

Because, you do not deserve these.

So, forgiving them to get more happiness in your life.

And, your happiness is the most important thing for your life.

Journey from born to the heaven

Several weeks ago, I had a session with my friend/client for reading and healing.

In the session, I got message for her about her old parents, but this is from God to tell everyone, I think. 

So, I wanna share it.

When we are born, we do not have anything. 

We forget what we decided or planed for this life to enjoy our life fully.

So, we have nothing at the beginning.

So, this is why our family, friends, other adults or even pets teach us many things for how to live our life.

Then, getting older, and teach other people and kids.

And, getting older and older.

We lose control our body, and forget things we enjoy, and what we have etc.

But, this is necessary for us to be back to the heaven.

Because, we need to be zero.

We need to be none.

Nothingness is what we become for our next life.

This is why we forget.

This is why we lose what we can do when we are young.

Yes, it is scary that we become like baby again that we cannot do anything by ourselves.

But, this is how we go.

And, it seems this is cycle of life.

And, when we become completly empty, then, you are ready to take next step to enjoy another life.

This is what I got. 

And, I think this means we should enjoy present time fully. 🙂 

We should not always think past or future.

Live life now is most important thing and also showing our appreciation to ourselves, ancestors, and God. 

So, enjoy what you do now.

Weekly Message 6/19-6/25

The day is coming so prepare it.

The day is near.

This is what I got for this week.

You might expect something good happens for long time, but have not see anything yet?

Then, you might see some light this week that what you have done so far and what you want to see in your life.

Life is not always bitter, but sweet.

You might feel that you don’t have anyone, or anything.

You might be in dark place or grey zone for long time that makes you feel abandoned.

You might feel nothing happens to you like what others enjoy.

But, you are always watched over by many angels and God.

I hope you enjoy what your life brings to your life.

Have a wonderful week!

Weekly Message 6/12-6/18

The full moon last week was the smallest moon in 2017, yet the power was strong.

If you feel some tiredness, sleepiness or some feelings come up around full moon, then, this is the sign that your body feel natural moon cycle. 

So, please take a rest if you need.

We usually forget what our body wants.

But, our life is like music.

If you play some instruments or sing or just like listening to any kind of music, then, you know how music is played.

Sometimes bold, sometimes soft, sometimes  crescendo and decrescend, pause etc.

This is why music is beautiful.

This is what life looks like.

We need sometimes live bold, but sometimes gentle, and plan, think and execute what you wanna do to make your music, life.

So, if you feel you wanna take a rest now, then do.

If you feel you take an action what you wanna dream about, then do so.

Feel your rhythm and music.

This is what you wanna do this week.

Have a great week!

Weekly Message 5/29-6/4

It is already like summer in Tokyo.

Now is a good time before rainy season to enjoy sunshine without high humidity that we have in summer.

Here I got message for this week.

What do you wanna do when you do not need to think your fears, lasck of time or resources etc ?

Yes, I believe we have lots of things we wanna do in our life like traveling, taking classes, enjoy good meals, buying ideal houses etc.

But, always we think about money and time  .

It is true that we need time and money to whatever we wanna do, and your fears come up from bottom of your heart.

But, if you think these things all the time, then, you might not be able to move forward.

Thinking about only what you wanna do, or what your dreams are.

If your dreams are not only dreams but your real goals and you will know how to get them.

For example, if you really wanna take classes, but you feel you wanna save money  .

But, if this is what you need to do and if you really passionate about, then, God will give you resources.

I experienced some time that I found resources to take healing classes in Australia. 

I found a company that allowed me to take 2 weeks vacation to join Gospel workshop for 10 days right after I joined the company. (Usually, I cannot get any day off during probation period.)

I thought I might not made them.

But, I did.

I believe same for you.

So, this week, please think what you really wanna do. 🙂

Have a wonderful week!!


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