While we are living on this earth, we experience so many things, anything good and bad. It does not matter whether you like it or not, we all have ups and downs, lights and darknesses.

Question is for you to ask, how you want to use these experiences for your good.

It is easier to use any experiences from good one, but, how about painful experiences?

Some people might want others to have the same experiences you have, but, some people want others to not have the same painful experiences as you have.

I have seen many people try to give the same pains to others to make sure they understand them. Maybe, for short term, these people get some satisfaction, but, they do not realize they are in the same pool as those who hurt them.

If you want to get out and thrive, then, forgive these people, experiences, situation and yourself. You do not need to be nice to these people, but, forgive them anyway for you and for your good. Forgiving someone and situations are you can feel neutral.

Then, you give people to some experience that you wanted to experience from the situation and from the people.

It seems you would not see how it works, but, at the end, you will see more trust, respect and appreciation that you have now from yourself and others. If you have seen people like these all the time, then, you are blessed. Please do what others to you to become a blessing for others.

It seems someone need this message, so, here you go.

Sometimes, you feel what you want is really far away from you, and feel no way you can reach.

But, please remember before the dawn is the darkest. So, if you feel you are in the dark, try to calm yourself and relax.

Because, what you want is almost there for you.

Believe and have faith what you have done so far and trust God and his timing.

God bless you all!

Happy 2026!

I hope your 2026 started with joys and hopes for this New Year.

We are tend to see and digest what our physician eyes see situations and people, but are they really true?

Nowadays, as you know, we have quite convenient tools to generate everything like AI. What we see sometimes on, especially, internet is not true, but generated by AI to look like real. Some good sites and/or posts mentioned they are not true but created by AI, but others do not mention anything. That is why we get caught up with false information and misunderstand some things.

How about our daily life?

Our mind generate what we want to see or try to understand that what you see by your physicians eyes or listen by your physical ears are true.

Is that so?

Some people really good at hiding their truth, real feelings, true natures etc, so we believe what we see is real and their truth, but we often hear that many people say “oh, he/she looked nice, so, I did not think he/she did such a awful thing…” etc…after something happens.

So, look through eyes of your heart. Not always what you see by your physical eyes are true. Behind the scene, there might be something going on in better or worse. We do not know which one until truth coming out, but when you try to see things from your heart, meaning feel than think, you would be able to see the truth that you cannot see by your physical eyes.

Like even some people work really well in their work, it does not mean they always have rosy life. They might have some sad days, but they do not show to provide their services. Maybe, some people are scared to do something, but try to not show, because they want to be success. Maybe, some people always look happy, but in reality, they probably have gone through hells…so, we never know what is going on behind the situations. Some people might seem they have quite good life, but in a reality, they have huge conflicts in their life…with spouse, siblings, parents, kids etc.

So, see anything through eyes of your heart and not judge anything quickly by what you see with your physical eyes. Fell it more, and, you will see more reality in the situation.

What would you like to do if you were told you had only a day to live?

We think we have a long life ahead and spend every day as it is with lots of worries, routine things, fears etc…but, imagine if you only had a day to live, what you would do?

We have never know what would happen next. Use time and energy for what you like and when you do what you need to do then find some good things and blessings in that.

Say/show your love and appreciation to who you love and appreciate. This is what people regret to not doing this when they realized they had only little time to be on this earth.

Do you wanna live in fears or do you wanna live in Love?

Your life is for you not for anyone else. Do what you like to do, and be who you really are…❤️

Maybe you sometimes feel no one understand you, no one understand your pain inside of you or what you are and have been going through.

First you might see and say to you like I know how much pain you have inside of you. I understand what your true intentions, your true feelings, even no one understands you, you know how you feel and how painful it is. Please talk to your inner child. Not always we can do this because we all now are adults and want to feel everything is ok, you can control everything you are facing and going through, but, it is not. And, it is ok for you to acknowledge about your feelings and pains you have. Do not pretend always you are ok because it is not.

And, actually, even you feel no one sees your pain or no one understands you, there are some people see your pains, and you will know and feel thier love. One thing I just wanna say is that please be humble and try to u stand others when you see some people who always smile or help people etc, Becuase people might hide their pains.

One more thing I want you to know that God knows everything even you don’t see anyone who understands you. So, you are not alone….

“You have searched me, Lord, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you, Lord, know it completely. You hem me in behind and before, and you lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast. If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,” even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you. For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭139‬:‭1‬-‭13‬ ‭NIV‬‬