This is the question we want to ask ourselves often. How do other people want you to live your life is often we follow to make others happy like because your family, especially your parents, want you to be certain types of person, having some type of life they believe, some occupations probably high status with high earnings etc.
Once again, ask yourself what type of life you want to have for you what makes you happy? Ask yourself.
But, of course, compassion and empathy are 2 things you always need to have, though.
Often times, God, gods, saints, angles etc. call me to bring some messages to this world. Or something else they want me to do.
This past several days, I was called to visit a shrine and a temple in Tokyo. Both of them were first time for me to go. Interestingly, both of them gave me quite similar messages.
Do not be afraid. Just moving forward. We, gods, support you.
This is not only for me, but, also for you who read this message.
So, just keep going, and you don’t have to be scared of unknown territory you might go through and into. You are supported and watched over by many bings.
While we are living on this earth, we experience so many things, anything good and bad. It does not matter whether you like it or not, we all have ups and downs, lights and darknesses.
Question is for you to ask, how you want to use these experiences for your good.
It is easier to use any experiences from good one, but, how about painful experiences?
Some people might want others to have the same experiences you have, but, some people want others to not have the same painful experiences as you have.
I have seen many people try to give the same pains to others to make sure they understand them. Maybe, for short term, these people get some satisfaction, but, they do not realize they are in the same pool as those who hurt them.
If you want to get out and thrive, then, forgive these people, experiences, situation and yourself. You do not need to be nice to these people, but, forgive them anyway for you and for your good. Forgiving someone and situations are you can feel neutral.
Then, you give people to some experience that you wanted to experience from the situation and from the people.
It seems you would not see how it works, but, at the end, you will see more trust, respect and appreciation that you have now from yourself and others. If you have seen people like these all the time, then, you are blessed. Please do what others to you to become a blessing for others.
Healing process is like polishing a rough diamond. It takes a time and effort to clean and make the diamond shine beautifully. Healing process is like that. Many people want quick and easy healing process to get results, however, actually most of healing processes required time, courages, patience, understanding, and love toward yourself.
It sounds not so wonderful, doesn’t it?
But, the result you would receive after these processes are amazing. You would understand more and the situations you have gone through and more over you would have more love toward yourself and would be able to forgive yourself. Eventually, you would love people around you even people who hurt or cause of your pains.
So, if you are on healing journey, then, keep walking with love. You are one of brave souls to go through this journey.
It is not easy but worthy, because you know how beautiful your soul is, and I believe your soul will shine just line a diamond or gems that you love to have.
I hope your 2026 started with joys and hopes for this New Year.
We are tend to see and digest what our physician eyes see situations and people, but are they really true?
Nowadays, as you know, we have quite convenient tools to generate everything like AI. What we see sometimes on, especially, internet is not true, but generated by AI to look like real. Some good sites and/or posts mentioned they are not true but created by AI, but others do not mention anything. That is why we get caught up with false information and misunderstand some things.
How about our daily life?
Our mind generate what we want to see or try to understand that what you see by your physicians eyes or listen by your physical ears are true.
Is that so?
Some people really good at hiding their truth, real feelings, true natures etc, so we believe what we see is real and their truth, but we often hear that many people say “oh, he/she looked nice, so, I did not think he/she did such a awful thing…” etc…after something happens.
So, look through eyes of your heart. Not always what you see by your physical eyes are true. Behind the scene, there might be something going on in better or worse. We do not know which one until truth coming out, but when you try to see things from your heart, meaning feel than think, you would be able to see the truth that you cannot see by your physical eyes.
Like even some people work really well in their work, it does not mean they always have rosy life. They might have some sad days, but they do not show to provide their services. Maybe, some people are scared to do something, but try to not show, because they want to be success. Maybe, some people always look happy, but in reality, they probably have gone through hells…so, we never know what is going on behind the situations. Some people might seem they have quite good life, but in a reality, they have huge conflicts in their life…with spouse, siblings, parents, kids etc.
So, see anything through eyes of your heart and not judge anything quickly by what you see with your physical eyes. Fell it more, and, you will see more reality in the situation.
Since we were born in this world, we have learned and experienced so many things. Some are really good, some might be not so good, but they probably were lessons for you, some nurture you, some encourage you to do something etc. Along the way, we might have lost some of our important part of ourselves to survive in this world. Maybe you hide yourself to fit into your family and society, maybe you just pretend who you are to be seen as brave, cool, smart etc or maybe pretend not so brave, smart etc. These behaviors, eventually, part of you and you feel that is who you are, but if you feel something not right within you, like you cannot breath, you feel you are not happy etc, then, this is your sign to change.
The message from the New Moon today for you to align yourself to be truly who you are.
You might feel defeated, hurt, pain all the time in your body or heart. This is your time to sift your energy to who you really are, and where you want to be. Your energy right now might be a mode of surviving to live in this life time with who you are with or your society, however, if you feel something wrong, something not right, something definitely not for you, correct? Then, this is your sign to change your energy to where align with. Probably, your energy right now align with where you feel you have to be to live or survive. Like a child is trying to survive to live in this world by checking always parents’ mood, emotions, needs etc, because otherwise, the child would not be able to survive, and this would be his/her behavior to live. Always feeling like need to survive. Your energy might be like that mode and trying to survive, meaning, you might face things for you to survive, because your energy align with survival. So, ask yourself where you wanna be, and who you truly are. If you cannot find truly who you are now, then, ask yourself, who you want to be. This is not you need find someone you wanna copy, but you just find how you want to feel, what you want to experience, what you want to see etc., and find where you are now. There would be gaps between them. You are able to free yourself from old you and old patterns of yourself. Align with these feelings, things, experiences….because you are free now and you can create your world with full of love and light to live with your new life.
What would you like to do if you were told you had only a day to live?
We think we have a long life ahead and spend every day as it is with lots of worries, routine things, fears etc…but, imagine if you only had a day to live, what you would do?
We have never know what would happen next. Use time and energy for what you like and when you do what you need to do then find some good things and blessings in that.
Say/show your love and appreciation to who you love and appreciate. This is what people regret to not doing this when they realized they had only little time to be on this earth.
Do you wanna live in fears or do you wanna live in Love?
Your life is for you not for anyone else. Do what you like to do, and be who you really are…❤️
Maybe you sometimes feel no one understand you, no one understand your pain inside of you or what you are and have been going through.
First you might see and say to you like I know how much pain you have inside of you. I understand what your true intentions, your true feelings, even no one understands you, you know how you feel and how painful it is. Please talk to your inner child. Not always we can do this because we all now are adults and want to feel everything is ok, you can control everything you are facing and going through, but, it is not. And, it is ok for you to acknowledge about your feelings and pains you have. Do not pretend always you are ok because it is not.
And, actually, even you feel no one sees your pain or no one understands you, there are some people see your pains, and you will know and feel thier love. One thing I just wanna say is that please be humble and try to u stand others when you see some people who always smile or help people etc, Becuase people might hide their pains.
One more thing I want you to know that God knows everything even you don’t see anyone who understands you. So, you are not alone….
“You have searched me, Lord, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you, Lord, know it completely. You hem me in behind and before, and you lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast. If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,” even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you. For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.” Psalms 139:1-13 NIV
