While we are living on this earth, we experience so many things, anything good and bad. It does not matter whether you like it or not, we all have ups and downs, lights and darknesses.

Question is for you to ask, how you want to use these experiences for your good.

It is easier to use any experiences from good one, but, how about painful experiences?

Some people might want others to have the same experiences you have, but, some people want others to not have the same painful experiences as you have.

I have seen many people try to give the same pains to others to make sure they understand them. Maybe, for short term, these people get some satisfaction, but, they do not realize they are in the same pool as those who hurt them.

If you want to get out and thrive, then, forgive these people, experiences, situation and yourself. You do not need to be nice to these people, but, forgive them anyway for you and for your good. Forgiving someone and situations are you can feel neutral.

Then, you give people to some experience that you wanted to experience from the situation and from the people.

It seems you would not see how it works, but, at the end, you will see more trust, respect and appreciation that you have now from yourself and others. If you have seen people like these all the time, then, you are blessed. Please do what others to you to become a blessing for others.