Your life is not a race to compete other people.
Your life is expression of how you bloom.
This is a key for you to have happier life, so, my question is how do you want to bloom?
How do you want to bloom?
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You are not alone
Sometimes, outside world is out of your control. People talk behind you and that is not always good things, but, often times people talk what they feel or see through you, and these are not always correct. These are reflections of their minds. Maybe protecting themselves, maybe they are afraid of something, maybe they do not want to see how they feel…of course, there are people who are on your side and talk about good things of you…the world is not that so evil place…but, if you feel you are or your loved ones are affected by these negative talks, then, please remember that you and God know how you actually feel, go through, etc. and, always there are people who see and feel things objectively or in your shoes.
So, please chin up and look up the sky. There are sun in day time and stars and moon in night time. Even in cloudy days, there are clouds and/or rains and/or breeze are with you.
You are not alone, you are always with angels and God.
So, even you feel in the dark, there would be your light near you.
Keep your hope in you. God is always watching over you, and know who you are, how you feel and what is going on with you.
It is your life not anyone else’s. So, shine brightly even you feel you cannot now. Your time will be coming soon…
Relationship is…
Friend of mine once asked me what relationship is when she had problems with her own fears relate to her boyfriend long time ago.
So, I told her relationship is like two people holding a cup together.
In this case, the cup is not plastic as you can imagine.
Maybe China that really precious and beautiful but sensitive and fragile.
You can imagine how hard to hold a cup with two people.
We need to keep balance, and when one hand gets tired another hand needs to support another hand and make sure to not drop it.
I believe that we can say same thing for our any relationship.
Unfortunately or fortunately, relationship cannot really visible.
This is why often we get misunderstood and makes things complicated.
But, if you imagine that our relationship is a beautiful cup that we wanna treat well and keep the beauty forever, then we know what to do.
Building relationship is taking a time and effort.
Sometimes, maybe not so beautiful, but ugly.
But, everyone involved needs effort to make the relationship works.
We all have egos, prides and fears, but if you know how your cup is precious, then, please think about what is the benefits to keep your egos and how these affect the relationship.
So, please look at your heart to find something that no longer serve your life, and admit and release them to build strong relationship with your loved ones.
You don’t have to be in rush to do that.
But, take one steady step toward to the cup.
If you do that, then, your partner knows how you value your relationship even it takes a time.
And this makes the hands that holding the cup and the cup itself stronger and more beautiful than ever.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV)
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 NIV
There is no distance between energies
Everything in this world is energies. You and me, foods, earth, water, car, book etc, everything in this world is energy. We usually don’t see that way.
When we live on this earth, we usually see what we see in physical forms. So, when you do not see, then, you think there is nothing.
Invisible world is only exist with energies. That is why you cannot see. But, you might have some experience that your TV or Radio suddenly got some noises…something interrupts the waves.
So, that is why there are mediums, psychics etc. exist. That is why psychic attacks, you think your friend, before they call you, that is why you feel love from your loved ones even from the distance…
So, do not deny, because you cannot see as some physical forms. It is not always visible, but invisibles.
And, there is no distance between energies…good and bad, it travels everywhere…so, sending good thought and love…and, when you connect someone at soul level, then, you feel the energy stronger than you think…
Peace you have right now
The world nowadays is quite chaotic. Conflict to conflict, it seems never ending.
In our daily life, we have ups and downs but if you read this, then, you probably in a safe place with internet.
Here is the message I got for the world we live now.
Peace we have now is priceless. You cannot buy peace by money. Please do not take this for granted. If your life is far from giving you peace of mind, then, pray. Pray to have peace of mind. Peace in you also cannot be bought by money but by faith. Keep your faith in Him to things balanced and calmed by His mercy and blessings.
Peace be with you all.
You are just like a rough diamond
Healing process is like polishing a rough diamond. It takes a time and effort to clean and make the diamond shine beautifully. Healing process is like that. Many people want quick and easy healing process to get results, however, actually most of healing processes required time, courages, patience, understanding, and love toward yourself.
It sounds not so wonderful, doesn’t it?
But, the result you would receive after these processes are amazing. You would understand more and the situations you have gone through and more over you would have more love toward yourself and would be able to forgive yourself. Eventually, you would love people around you even people who hurt or cause of your pains.
So, if you are on healing journey, then, keep walking with love. You are one of brave souls to go through this journey.
It is not easy but worthy, because you know how beautiful your soul is, and I believe your soul will shine just line a diamond or gems that you love to have.
Return to yourself
The full moon here is to say “return to yourself! “
We live in noisy and busy life, and usually people think they need to be better than or superior to Others. Is it true?
I do know many people try to proof they are great, they are good etc. But, why do you need to prove?
Is it because you feel you are not good? You are not enough to do what you do right now? You feel threat by others because you feel others or specific someone is better than you?
We are all different and we all have different gifts from God to serve in this world to make the world better places and learn from it to be better you, not better than others.
In Bible says,
14 Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many. 15 Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. 16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? 18 But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. 19 If they were all one part, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many parts, but one body. 21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” 22 On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, 24 while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25 so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. 26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. (1 Corinthians 12:12-27 NIV)
We all are like body parts in one body to be a human being to be here. Some might be really good at calculations, some are good at making something by hands or drawing etc…we remember that we are all different human being to serve different things in this world to make this society greater, not compete others.
But, of course, here we are as human beings, we easily forget we are different, so, if you feel that you want to prove you are better than someone else, then, look at yourself and go back to your heart and ask what your gift from God to serve. And, when you remember what your gift is, then, your feeling like you have to proof yourself that you are better than others will fade away slowly. After that, you will feel you are you, and remember who you are.
This is what the full moon says to you today, return to yourself. Retuning yourself is a start for your journey to remember who you are and being who you truly are. Then, you will have more peace in your life.
Message from Full Moon May 2025
Full moon in May, it is called flower moon. It seems smaller than usual yet, powerful for releasing and cleansing. Some of you might already notice the power of this moon that some old negative thought and memories come up from the bottom. It is quite great time to release them. When you release them, then, you will have a space for better experiences.
A message I got from the moon is;
Cerebrate your life now to buy flowers for yourself, get some good coffee for yourself, say thank you to yourself to show appreciation and love to yourself. You always forget yourself and take care of others more than you think, so this is the time for you to give some love and care for you. Pink flowers might good for your heart right now to nurture your heart and help to heal your wounded heart. Your pains will be gone when you notice your pains. Look up the sky to talk to me. I will be watching over you and heal your heart. Your pains and fears are not for you to stay where you are, but make you stronger, and you already know you do not need the fears anymore. Hand them to me. What do you want to do? Where do you wanna go? Who do you want to become? Imagine where you are in the future and ask yourself “do you still need the pains and fears you have now?” I believe your answer is “NO” So, give them to me. You can have good things in your life. You can be happy and happier. Release all negative beliefs, fears, pains, wounds, thoughts, memories, angers, resentments, disappointments….replace them to hope, joys, laughers, loves, lights, kindness….your life will be brighter and gently like my light.
Victor or Victim
When life is not easy or sweet, we can really easily become a victim of life. Complaining everything what you have experienced , blaming other people who put you in the situation etc. I believe we all experience this kind of mindset and some kind of dark night. Usually, people can get out of this mindset eventually, but, some people keep complaining everything and as if they try to act like they are a victim of thier life or someone. As if always their external circumstances make them think or feel they are victims.
This is the same as if you are happy or not. Yes, when we have something, when we are in a good situation, of course we are happy. But, even your circumstances are not ideal, you can be happy, and even when you seem you have everything many people still are not happy.
Why? Because, happiness is coming from within you. Not from outside.
When you can appreciate and happy what you have now, you usually have peace in you and happy with your life. But, when you cannot see what you have and blessings you have now, then, you focus on your lack not blessings and this leads you unease and always you are lack everything even you have what you wanted, and not happy. Because you don’t have anything that satisfy you.
Once you realize the things you have now and thank what you are given, then, you are in happiness, not in lack mentality. You can start next challenge from fulfilled feelings.
It is the same to get out of victim mentality. You are not a victim but you decide you are. Look at what you have and what you have experienced, you will find something good in your life. Do you want to enjoy the good things you have or you want to chase a ghost to fulfill your egos to prove someone or something that you cannot prove?
You might have some hard time, but, know that you and your life decide what you want to experience. So,, you acknowledge this and say you are not a victim but a victor to overcome your problems. Look your blessings rather than your lack. Grass is always greener on the other side if you always see until you see good things you have and look inside of you and know your grass is always green and just perfect green for you.
Once you realize this you will become a victor of your life. Our life is not a race to compete with others but a journey to grow our soul.
Creating harmony
Life is not a race who is win or lose, or how fast you can achieve your goals etc. life we have is a journey and we learn many things along the way, but not competing with others.
Our life is more like how you create harmony in your life and with others. If you always compete, then, one day you might win but one day you might lose. Our life is not like that.
We, of course, argue or fight with people, but, at the end, try to find peace and to create harmony.
In that way, you will find some fruits from it. If you always try to win, you always find only ashes and filled with empty satisfactions that will be gone eventually.
You don’t have to win or lose, but be in harmony. What we learn on this earth while we are here is how to play symphonies with others and with your life. Whether you like music or not, harmonious music makes you feel comfortable, soothing, calm, happy etc…your life is also becoming a beautiful music when you intend to have harmony in your life than competition.
Try hard to not to win but to create harmony in you and in your life. Then, you will be much happier.
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