Everything has time. Trust God’s timing. He created everything and knows better than you do. He has plans for you.
“He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.”
Ecclesiastes 3:11
Friend of mine once asked me what relationship is when she had problems with her own fears relate to her boyfriend long time ago.
So, I told her relationship is like two people holding a cup together.
In this case, the cup is not plastic as you can imagine.
Maybe China that really precious and beautiful but sensitive and fragile.
You can imagine how hard to hold a cup with two people.
We need to keep balance, and when one hand gets tired another hand needs to support another hand and make sure to not drop it.
I believe that we can say same thing for our any relationship.
Unfortunately or fortunately, relationship cannot really visible.
This is why often we get misunderstood and makes things complicated.
But, if you imagine that our relationship is a beautiful cup that we wanna treat well and keep the beauty forever, then we know what to do.
Building relationship is taking a time and effort.
Sometimes, maybe not so beautiful, but ugly.
But, everyone involved needs effort to make the relationship works.
We all have egos, prides and fears, but if you know how your cup is precious, then, please think about what is the benefits to keep your egos and how these affect the relationship.
So, please look at your heart to find something that no longer serve your life, and admit and release them to build strong relationship with your loved ones.
You don’t have to be in rush to do that.
But, take one steady step toward to the cup.
If you do that, then, your partner knows how you value your relationship even it takes a time.
And this makes the hands that holding the cup and the cup itself stronger and more beautiful than ever.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV)
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 NIV
In our lifetime, we sometime or often worry about future or unknown things. Maybe, some people ask friends or family members advices…but, usually, we know the answers. It does not matter whether you can see or hear spirits…but, you can trust your gut.
But, sometimes, your fears makes things complicated. Your fears try to make you to stay where you are now to protect you from harmful things. I believe everyone has this experience. Like you wanna have new job, but, it is scared to quit your current one. You wanna open your heart again, but, it is really scared to get hurt again. So, fears make things complicated. These fears coming from your past, not current situations or from your futures. It is not easy to overcome your fears, but, if you wanna change your life, then, let’s see what your fears…remember, fears from your past and don’t have power to determine your furriers, but, we give powers to the fears to controle your thought. So, just take a deep breath if your fears come up, and release them. And, ask yourself what your gut really says to you.
Once you overcome your fears, you will see different world than you see now. Transformation is always from within not from outside.
And, one more thing, do not give up on yourself, on your happiness. You are the one write your journey with God, not anyone else. If you don’t give up on your happiness, you will get there even you take a time.
Happy New Year everyone! Wish you blessed 2022!!
The new year started with New Moon this year. Wonderful to stats the year, I believe. This year, you will experience many new things that you might not expected or think of.
The question is; are you ready to receive? Are you ready to walk in new way?
And, please appreciate what you have now like such like your hea
Say “Yes” to receive. This is the time that you set your year ahead. it might be a good idea to make a vision board with feelings and emotions that you would like to experience this year. Or write a letter for your future as if you already accomplish the goals you have now.
And, please appreciate what you have now such as health, family, friends, work etc…and, yourself. You live in this life time is miracle. So, do not forget about that. The world now seems still in the dark place, but, there will be light at the end of this. Don’t lose your hope and love.
Happy New Year to you all!
When we have new moon, we cannot moon from our eyes. What we can see all darkness. So, you might feel something come up from within, like some dark side of you that usually you do not see, you do not wanna see and/or you want to hid from you and/or others. Because, your darkness is not really lovable by you and others.
But, still it is you. The new moon this time is quite good time to see your shadow-self whether you like it or not…
The new moon is encouraging you to embrace your dark side that you do not like.
If you have some difficulties, ask the universe to what the universe is trying to tell you. There are something always you can take away from the situations. The situations you are in is not always what you see from your views. Always, there are some other people and the things we cannot see. If we see something that behind the scene, you might be able to change how you feel, how you react to the situations and more over might change how you see yourself.
The dark side of yourself is quite treasure, just you need to learn how to use them for your and others happinesses. The darkness or things you do not like yourself, is you. You cannot learn from anyone or blaming others things you do not like etc. You have to decide to be happy, and embrace whole you not only your strengths and good things but weaknesses and not so good things.
In the dark sky, you see lots of stars that we usually cannot see with bright moon light. This is the time to see the stars in you. The shadow-self is actually the stars in you. More you embrace these stars in you, your light will be brighter…
The new moon is eventually become full moon in 28 days. Everything is a cycle and this is the time to focus on yourself to find your shadow-self in you and embrace and love yourself more and more…
Don’t be afraid of change.
There will be a better and happier life await you.
So, don’t be afraid unknown. You will need to take this change, and you can do it. This is why God gives you this change for you. If you deny it, He will force you to change something in harsh ways as you know.
So, when you have a chance to change by yourself, then, please don’t be afraid. This is what you need to do. This change might be lifestyle, this might be perception, Belief you have etc…
You will be more than fine after the change. So, don’t be afraid. If you still be afraid, call your angels and God to help you and support you. They will be there for you…
We human being tend to try to be perfect and compare to other people and disappointed by what you find in others and not in you. Some people, then, start being aggressively attacking to others or themselves, or trying to proof they are superior to others etc… Is it good thing? Answer is no.
In any religious teaching, I believe they tell you being humble. Is it difficult for you? Probably, answer is yes to many, and it is quite normal, so do not blame yourself. But, why it is difficult to be humble? Is this because you give up what you have, your effort, time etc? Please put your hands on your heart to ask yourself, if you think it is difficult for you to be humble. Being humble is not losing something or something you did. It is just accept the fact that you know what your talents, gifts and strengths, and also weaknesses. Why? Because, your weakness are someone’s strengths. Things that you cannot do by yourself, but someone can do or do with them. We cannot do everything by ourselves, as we all know, but we want to think we can do everything can be handled by ourselves. But, it is not true.
In Bible, there is a scripture to tell about church as a body of Jesus Christ. Explaining how church can work under one spirit with one body with many members. We are all under the universe and no matter where you live or you believe, we are the one. Meaning, it is like our body. Maybe, you are eyes, and some others are nose etc. Eye cannot smell roses if there is not nose how sweet they smell. Nose cannot see roses how beautiful they are without eyes. So, we, human beings, are like that. None of us is the same, but we are different and have different gifts to support each other to complete our society, which is like our body.
So, if you think in that way, then, we are not superior to anyone, but just different, and if you were not here, it is not perfect as a body. Being humble is you realize these differences and just appreciate the things other people do for you.
So, if you are part of our body, it means you do not need to focus on what you cannot do or do not have, because you have different things than others. Please focus what you have and you can and appreciate your gifts from God. Then, eventually, you will be more humble than now and won’t struggle to be, then, your life will be changed.
We all have something in our hearts such as good and bad memories. Good memories help us to keep walking where we are heading to. But, bad memories, we should use them wisely to learn, grow, moving to new you etc.
If you wanna use your bad memories and experiences to help you to grow, one thing we can do is face them. It is scary and not pleasant at all, but, if we avoid to see them now, then, we repeat the situations or bring things to feel the same feelings as you have, then, God push you to face them eventually. And, it is not really fun at all as some of you might know. So, if you feel you repeat some events, feelings etc, then, please stop and look at in your heart. What is the trigger for you to feel this, How you feel now, why you feel this, when this start etc.
You might cry, but, it is ok. You got hurt, but, you have tried to walk, kept pushing you to go through and move on. So, just give you a time to stop, reflect, release and rest.
It is a wonderful time to release anything no longer serve you now since full moon is coming soon. Be honest with yourself. No one is laughing at you, or judging you. If you feel you are judged even you do this process by yourself, then, check yourself. You might really hard on you. Be gentle yourself. You always work hard for yourself, so be kind to yourself.
Healing journey is like peeling onions. You peel one layer, then, another one shows up. It seems never ending, but, when you face and heal your major themes in your life time, you will be free from it.
Do not give up. Take your time to do it. healing journey is marathon not sprint. So, take detours and smell roses sometimes, or just relax, sleep or eat etc. It will help you to keep walking. You will be surprised how far you have come in the future and how your life has changed.
The moon is in full phase and means the end of one cycle.
Which doors have you closed recently? Have you released some patterns no longer serve you, but you have repeated anyway? Or maybe something or someone? If you close one door, God will give you another door to open, as you might hear. So, don’t be afraid to close/release something/someone now for your new beginning.
Imagine and write it down what you want from now on. The energy of the moon has been pushing you to release something. Just surrender to do it for your brighter, happier and lighter future.
Dream big. Think outside of the box. Do something beyond your comfort zone. These are the key words for you now!
It will be almost Valentine’s Day!
It does not matter whether you have love or not. Show your love to anyone in this world.
Love is what we all need and want.
The word “act of kindness” just came to me to tell you to do something for this world.
Maybe just smiling to a stranger.
Maybe just pick a garbage from the street or the beach…
Anything you can think of please do so.
We are still in a difficult time but if we do some random acts of kindness to anyone, our world will be better little by little.
Please show and share your love with the world. ❤️
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