Relationship is…

Friend of mine once asked me what relationship is when she had problems with her own fears relate to her boyfriend long time ago.

So, I told her relationship is like two people holding a cup together.

In this case, the cup is not plastic as you can imagine.

Maybe China that really precious and beautiful but sensitive and fragile.

You can imagine how hard to hold a cup with two people.

We need to keep balance, and when one hand gets tired another hand needs to support another hand and make sure to not drop it.

I believe that we can say same thing for our any relationship.

Unfortunately or fortunately, relationship cannot really visible.

This is why often we get misunderstood and makes things complicated.

But, if you imagine that our relationship is a beautiful cup that we wanna treat well and keep the beauty forever, then we know what to do.

Building relationship is taking a time and effort.

Sometimes, maybe not so beautiful, but ugly.

But, everyone involved needs effort to make the relationship works.

We all have egos, prides and fears, but if you know how your cup is precious, then, please think about what is the benefits to keep your egos and how these affect the relationship.

So, please look at your heart to find something that no longer serve your life, and admit and release them to build strong relationship with your loved ones.

You don’t have to be in rush to do that.

But, take one steady step toward to the cup.

If you do that, then, your partner knows how you value your relationship even it takes a time.

And this makes the hands that holding the cup and the cup itself stronger and more beautiful than ever.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV)

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4:9-12‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Anyway, this is your time to shine

This is for people who are discouraged and disappointed.

People say whatever they wanna say about you from their views.

So, shine anyway.

Be you anyway.

“If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway.

If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies: Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank people will try to cheat you: Be honest anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight: Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous of you: Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten by tomorrow: Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway.”

Mother Teresa

Message from Full moon

The moon is in full phase and means the end of one cycle.

Which doors have you closed recently? Have you released some patterns no longer serve you, but you have repeated anyway? Or maybe something or someone? If you close one door, God will give you another door to open, as you might hear. So, don’t be afraid to close/release something/someone now for your new beginning.

Imagine and write it down what you want from now on. The energy of the moon has been pushing you to release something. Just surrender to do it for your brighter, happier and lighter future.

Dream big. Think outside of the box. Do something beyond your comfort zone. These are the key words for you now!

“Thank You “ is magical words

I encounter many people and many situations. I believe many of us, too.

And, notice that some people don’t say or cannot say “Thank you” to people who care about or do something for them.

Maybe, it is a small thing, so that they don’t think they need to say “Thank you.”

Or, they are shy to express their gratitude.

Or, it is just because the thing they receive is part of services like eating at restaurant, paying to what they buy etc…

But, everyone is human being, and we cannot live by ourselves alone. We all need someone to do their job to you, care about you etc.

And, I don’t believe anyone don’t like to be appreciated. Moreover, everyone wants to feel some gratitude and love.

“Thank you” is a magical words to show love to even strangers.

You don’t have to “I love you” all the time.

But, say “Thank you”.

In Japanese Culture “Atigato” (means “Thank you” in Japanese) has highest vibration among Japanese words.

When people touch or hear higher vibration, usually it makes people be warm, comfortable, welcomed etc.

So, say “Thank You” to people who care about you, do something for you, or even situations you are in.

You have a power to make people happy with simple words, “Thank You”.

Sending love to you all.

The Transitioning Time

I just encountered “A Rider Named Death” by Salvador Dali when I checked my social media account.

Death in this world is thought as the end of life, the end of everything, scary things…it is describe with not positive words, I think.

But, in The Traditional Rider Tarot Deck, the death card represents more like “good-bye to Old and hello to New” and not really real physical death. So, it is transitioning time with hope, when you see the death card in your tarot reading. Every day we have night to end our day, then, morning to start new day.

So, when I see the painting of Dali, I immediately thought this is what we have been experiencing now. Many people say we have “New Normal”. Yes, I agree. We need to change some lifestyle to adjust, but unfortunately, some parts of human being still continue what we did in the past like throwing garbages on the streets, on the beach, not care about others and our natures, discriminate people etc. Do we want to continue this to our future? Do we want to pass theses on to our children?

In the painting, we can see a rainbow. Rainbow represents God’s promise as many of you already know.

Let’s think again what we want to bring to our future and our children, because this is the transitioning and transformational time that God gives us to all.

Have a great day!

A rider named Death by Salvador Dali

A Rider Named Death by Salvador Dali

 

Gorgeous Super Flower Moon-with your soul

Full moon in May is always special. Bright, gorgeous and powerful. Even in this time, the full moon is there to watch over us to tell love and humanity we should have.

Whenever you are in this world, and whatever happens in your life, the moon is there with peace.

Just look up. Your life might not be so bright now, but, this is a chance to found your blessings now in this situation.

Our souls planed lessons we learn in our life before we were born. So, what your soul’s plan for you. What your soul wants to tell you now. Take a moment and feel it. Answer is always in you.

Rainbow bridge with Super Flower Moon

Happy Easter!

In this challenging time, we see true colors of people. People who care about you, who care about others or people who care about only themselves. This is a good time to know who you truly are. So, act as person who you want to be with love and compassion to yourself, others and this earth.

On this Easter Day, one of Bible verses comes to me to tell you guys.

“Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.”
‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4:4‬ ‭KJV‬‬

We have gone through really tough time. Some people need to go to work everyday to save people, or support our daily life. Some lost many things in this short time of period. But, what God wants to say is “Rejoice”. It is difficult to do that if you are in dark time, but, we should not forget to feel joy of our life. Please try to have joy and happiness in small things like you can eat, sleep and wake up.

Living in one day is quite miraculous thing that we easily forget or forgot before this time. So, please remember to rejoice everyday and every minutes you have now.

Stay safe and Happy Easter!

Message of Spring Equinox 2020

The world right now in madness of the new virus.

But, our life always move no matter what happens in this world.

It is Spring Equinox on March 20, 2020, and this is the day Spring starts. You might not feel you have Spring at this moment and under this condition. But, flowers are blooming, birds are singing and animals are waking up from long sleep.

What message we have for this year’s spring equinox? The message I got is “enjoy your life and this moment with full of love and appreciation.”

In this time, we can easily see negative side or living by fears. I believe we need to careful about how you live now to protect yourself, your loved ones and others. But, it does not mean you should live in fears. I believe you have common sense to follow and slow the virus to spread. But, we cannot only see in negative side of this situation. You might feel like you are stuck at home, but you could have time with your kids or with yourself more than before. You might need to go to work anyway, but, it means you are needed in different way than others. There is no superior or inferior in our life, just we play different roles. So, please try to find something good, somethings that you usually cannot do. I know it is not fun to stay hone for a long time or you need to go to work anyway. But, there is something for you that only you can find in this time.

Our life is precious, and you now know more than ever because of this situation. So, appreciate everything you experience now.

You might see something really beautiful in this.

Have a beautiful spring!

Anyway

This is for people who are discouraged and disappointed.

People say whatever they wanna say about you from their views.

So, shine anyway.

Be you anyway.

“If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway.

If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies: Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank people will try to cheat you: Be honest anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight: Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous of you: Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten by tomorrow: Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway.”

Mother Teresa

Weekly Message 12/30-1/5

The last week of 2019 and The first week of 2020 and new decade.

How was your 2019?

2019 was (still is 😉) transformative year that many people have experienced some sort of changes.

Changes are scary but necessary to improve or grow yourself.

It is not always comfortable or exciting, but, after the changes you are able to have different views on your life and the world.

So, if you are feeling bit disappointed or in some kind of dull moments, don’t give up.

You might just go through some changes and you see things in dark shadow moment.

The message for this week is “what would you like to bring next year and next 10 years?”

New year will be starting soon and this is also start of new decade.

It is great time to think about what you want to experience in 2020 and new decade.

And, also it is great time to think what you want to release (i.e. what you don’t wanna experience again) in this new beginning.

Many of you write or think about new resolution when new year starts.

Let’s include feelings and emotions you want to experience in 2020 and next 10 years.

And, imagine you live in these emotions and feelings to manifest these experiences in your life.

I wish your new year and new decade will be filled with lots of loves, joys, happinesses and blessings!

Happy New Year!