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When God is talking to you

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It is simple.

You see, hear, encounter same sentence, story, things over and over till you realize that He is talking to you.

So, pay attention when you see same phrases or things over and over or hear same theme many times.

I was taught at my church I should appreciate everything, even things not turn to your favors or even you are in difficult place.

Yeah, it is easy to say.

I was taught about appreciation so many times at the church.

Then, one day, I went to another church for evening service, because I wanted to see and sing Gospel, then, Pastor started telling about Appreciation as his preach.

I was not in good situation at that time.

But, obviously what God wanted to tell me was appreciate where you were now, thank the situation I was in.

So, I said to God.

Understood.

And, tried to appreciate everything and the situation I was in.

It took time to fully appreciate the situation I was in, but good thing is I am able to thank everything I have now, where I am and what I do.

So, listen to what God wants to tell you, then, you will find amazing gifts God gives you.

God always give you a way to heal your wounded heart and bring you great love.

Glow from within

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Sometimes, we jealous other people because we feel they have everything we want or do.

And, sometimes, people don’t like when other people do well.

Then, sometimes, they just try to pull other people down, or push away, mean to them, etc…do something negative.

But, if you wanna stand out with some light, then, first you should realize what you can do and cannot do.

And, know that these people who seem successful work hard when you cannot see them.

And, they usually know what they can do and good at.

So, first, know what you can do and good at.

And, if you wanna do something you are not good at, then work hard instead of jealous and do some negative things to others.

Even you do some negative things to others, you cannot glow truly.

Maybe, you can stand out some short time, but, that light is false.

So, think something you can glow within.

Everything is from you, not others or outside.

Everything is in you.

Be yourself 

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People often say we have to be ourselves, be authentic etc.

Yes, we should be.

But, I feel many people are confused difference between what being authentic and be selfish. 

We always should respect others even being yourselves.

We always compassionate others and kind to others even when you are authentic.

Being yourselves does not mean you can hurt others or disrespect them, or treat like doormat.

I believe being yourself is more like treating you as you.

Saying no to others when you feel unconfortanle, or not put you into some boxs that labled you as like typical something or someone like typical some nationality, mom or dad or someone’s expectations.

We have to know the difference between being your self and being selfish.

People who think they can do whatever they do tend to they do not really care about others.

But, this is not what people say be yourself.

We always have to respect others and ourselves.

I believe this is fundamental of any type of relationship including with yourself.

Happiness

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Happiness is from within, not from outside.

But, many people do not know this.

Because, I know many people who are always not happy even they have their ideal jobs, or dream spouses or do whatever they wanna do. 

They always complain something about in their life, holding something really negative memories or feelings.

You know what?

Everyone has bad memories, but if we do not give these memories power, then, they are just memories and they don’t have any power over you.

But, people who always unhappy usually give power to their bad memories or feelings.

Or usually these people see “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” and they compare to other people to find how they are lack of something or unhappy etc.

Of course, we are human being, so we can be in some dark places or envy other people sometimes.

But, if we continually do these things, then, we will not know how happy we are.

And, when we feel happiness, then, we have more smiles on our faces.

This attracts more people and happiness.

We don’t have to be positive all the time.

We don’t need to smile all the time.

If we feel sad, desapointed, etc, then feel the feelings.

But, remember you are the one who can make you happy.

So, when you feel it is the time to smile, then start smiling again.

And, count your happiness and blessings.

And, appreciate these things in your life.

When you truly feel you are happy, then, you show it to the world.

And, you will attract more happiness.

This is what we call law of attractions. 

So, be happy.

Your Happiness is always from you. 🙂 

Weekly Message 2/13-2/19

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Valentine’s Day is here this week, and hope you present your love to your loved ones. 🙂

Do not take them for granted. 

Building trust is hard, but losing is easy.

So, hope you always show your love and appreciations to your special ones.

This includes yourself. 

Life is like movie, and you write your script as main character.

Other people are helping your movie to fun, miserable, happier, darker etc depend on what you wanna see in your movie.

Even people who you don’t like or always irritate you make your movie colorful in some ways.

So, please appreciate everyone in your movie this week.

If you can see every people in that way and give your love, then, I believe your movie will be blooming.

Show your love and appreciation to everyone in your life including yourself this week. 

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Weekly message 9/26-10/2

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Maybe love is not always fun or sweet.

Maybe sometimes brings empty feelings or frustration.

This is why Bible says Love is Patient.

In this week, just remember how your love is sweet and tender.

Love is actually warm, sweet and kind.

We can easily forget about these qualities of love, because we expect something from people who you love.

But, just remember first you should love yourself and feel your love first.

So, please remember how you love yourself and how much you love yourself.

And, say I love you to yourself often.

Then, you will hear love you from your loved ones. 

Have a wonderful week!

Weekly Message 1/18-1/24

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We had snow today in Tokyo.

I am really amazed by this snow.

This past weekend, my friends were here from Indonesia and they said they want to see snow.

But, the weather was kind of warm, so there is no sign of snowing. But, then, the last day of their stay, actually just before they leave snow was falling down.

They were so happy and I was amazed what God gave to them.

So, what I have learned again is there is a timing and we just trust it.

God takes care of what we need.

This week, please love yourself as much as you can.

If you are tired, please take a rest, take a massage, drink a cup of tea or coffee to relax more often than you do normally.

Sending flowers to you.

Say thank to yourself.

Say sorry to yourself if you always work hard to take others.

You need more love to you.

God loves you.

Have a wonderful week!!