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Family

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If you have a family/parents/siblings you wanna see every holiday, then, you are blessed. Every family has some kind of problems, but if you still want to see them,then, you should be happy.

If you are from abusive family, then, you are not alone. I am also the one. If your family member well hide their true natures, then, not many people can understand, and usually quite hard for other people to resonate with your problems, because your problems might out of the box type of problems to other people. Family is the first and only world for babies and infants. So, usually, what they see, experience and learn from it, it is their whole and only world until they see different types of families in their lives. So for people from abusive families, what they experienced is the normal things for them and they might not realize that their experiences should not be happened to them.

Even among siblings, what they experience is different, because we all have different life purpose to be here. One might be have looks like normal life, but one might have break their ancestral karmic ties. If so, this one tend to have harder life than other siblings.

They are usually perceived as a black sheep, a trouble child, rebellious etc. They might not know their mission to be here, but usually they are here to change their family cultures to relate old patterns and welcome new patterns. If you are the one, or someone in your family is like that, then, you might understand. How difficult to understand what they are doing. They usually are isolated from their family if you get what they need to do or feel uncomfortable.

If you have a family member of like this, then, please think why they do what they do before you try to fix them. If you are the one, then, ask yourself what you are doing and what you want to bring into your life and family line. It is ok to be different from your family because we are always individual. Your life is not the same as your parents or siblings. This is your life. You can choose and design your own life to be happy even your family is not happy about it.

If your friends have problems with their family, then, you do not have to understand them but, please do not judge them. It is quite hard for them to live with the experiences. In any religious teachings, it always teaches that you mush respect your parents. But, if you are in abusive environment, then, leave first, then, protect yourself first and start respect and honor yourself. You do not have to feel guilty to be separate from your family if you are suffering, or you do not need to forgive them until you are ready, and even you could forgive them, you can isolate from them. And, please do not give up on yourself. You tend to have tougher life than usual. Ask your friends or God to send a help and nurture yourself with your love.

I do understated it takes a lot of times, but just do not give up on you, because you deserve healthy happy life with love from others, and please know that your experiences could help other people in the future. God and angels are always with you and watch over you.

Choose Love- New Moon Message

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Do you feel as if you are surrounded by lots of problems? Do you feel like problems or troubles come to you endlessly?

Then, please know that you have good things also in your life, but you cannot realize because you focus on your problems. So, please change your focus on good things in your life and do things from love over angers or fears from now on while you are tackling your situations. Appreciate what you have. Grateful that your lessens of your situations.

When you change your perspective toward your situations and life, your life will be changing gradually and you will feel more happiness and peace in you.

Your life will be brighter than you feel now. Enjoy your life now on this earth at this moment.

New Moon in Virgo

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The moon is now in complete darkness, then, slowly coming out and moving forward to full moon. Now your new doors are about to open, and you will soon to experience quite new.

From the last full moon, you might face your fears that block you to have happier life. Now you have some space to enjoy your new life. If you still feel your fears and darkness coming up from bottom your heart, then, keep working. You are soon to enter your new journey which brings you to your ideal life step by step.

When your inside changes what you see will be changed accordingly. The people you are with now and the places you are now will bring different experiences to you. These changes are coming from you, and not because your outside changes. Even you go to the same places with same people, you see differently.

So, the new moon is asking now to imagine your dream life. How you want to feel and what you want to experience. Imagine you are already there and feel how you feel when you are there.

All your hard work will be payed off, and you will soon be happier than now.

Choose always Love

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Whether you have some problems or some conflict in your life, or be in dark place now, please choose love and, believe that your will be ok, more than ok in near future. ❤️

You are always protected, guided and loved by God.

Solstice. Beginning of Summer/Winter

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This is the time to change the season, from spring to summer/ autumn to winter. You might experience that some suppressed negative feelings coming up to surface right now. It is the sign that it is the time to release some old wounds and beliefs that causing the feelings.

When some old feelings come up, it is not fun, actually. It is quite painful and sad, but it is the past experiences not at this moment. So, do not allow the feelings to dictate you and your future life. Please remember, this is the sign to release the cause of the feelings.

So, sit quietly to go into your deep down to find the roots. Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Go back to the first event that causing your feelings. Do you have any similar experiences in your life? Have you felt similar feelings in the past? Ask yourself and the universe to help you to find the roots of your pains and release them. You might find the roots in your childhood of just one words from your parents, teachers, siblings etc…like ugly, stupid, fat etc…we all were innocent and did not know the world and yourself, so you could easily absorb the words, situations etc to make these as your truth. But, were they true?

These events might contribute your beliefs to make unwanted patterns in your life. The beliefs about yourself, financial situation, career, and any kind of relationships. For example, if you have belief that you are not worthy, then, you always attract something that is not the best thing, or even you have an wonderful opportunity to take or receive, you might just reject or sabotage somehow the opportunity. Do you want to continue the patterns to have unwanted experiences or do you want to have better experiences in your life for yourself?

It is up to you. The universe has given us so many opportunities to release unnecessary beliefs and patterns from your life. If you are ready to change your life, be honest with yourself, and know that everything is from within, not from outside.

We clean our rooms. It is the same that we all need clean up our conscious and unconscious body once in a while to have new experiences. This is the wonderful time to do that to start Summer/Winter with new you. When your internal self is changed, you will see different world.

Eclipse Message May 2022

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Eclipse is happening soon for us to bring a chance to change your patterns. The patterns that you do want to change but you have not changed. We all have some kind of patterns in our life whether good or bad, you like it or not. Such us, you might always find yourself in conflicted situations, maybe you always have some people who do not respect you, or make you feel unworthy etc…

Do you want to change this patterns and have better life? If so, there is an opportunity for you with this eclipse. Be honest with yourself and what kind of situations, patterns and/or beliefs you have in you to bring these patterns in your life. The first thing we need is to know what you have and accept the things you have, and take responsibility what you have. If you want to change, please decide and take accountable for your life.

The message I got from the eclipse is;

“Do not be afraid of the change you want to make. You just want to have a better life than you have now, so tap into unknown territory that you will have in near future. Your life will be much brighter than you think now. The life is sweeter than you have now. You will have the power to see, accept and change what you have now and no longer serve you, so be courage to do that for you, not for anyone, but for you. You are the reason you live, so if you want to change, then, you can. See the future with hope, and feel the future with the light, and experience the new life the you will bring for you. Because, you will enjoy your life more than you do now. Have faith on God and you, yourself.”

What does your gut say?

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In our lifetime, we sometime or often worry about future or unknown things. Maybe, some people ask friends or family members advices…but, usually, we know the answers. It does not matter whether you can see or hear spirits…but, you can trust your gut.

But, sometimes, your fears makes things complicated. Your fears try to make you to stay where you are now to protect you from harmful things. I believe everyone has this experience. Like you wanna have new job, but, it is scared to quit your current one. You wanna open your heart again, but, it is really scared to get hurt again. So, fears make things complicated. These fears coming from your past, not current situations or from your futures. It is not easy to overcome your fears, but, if you wanna change your life, then, let’s see what your fears…remember, fears from your past and don’t have power to determine your furriers, but, we give powers to the fears to controle your thought. So, just take a deep breath if your fears come up, and release them. And, ask yourself what your gut really says to you.

Once you overcome your fears, you will see different world than you see now. Transformation is always from within not from outside.

And, one more thing, do not give up on yourself, on your happiness. You are the one write your journey with God, not anyone else. If you don’t give up on your happiness, you will get there even you take a time.

Message from New Moon

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When we have new moon, we cannot moon from our eyes. What we can see all darkness. So, you might feel something come up from within, like some dark side of you that usually you do not see, you do not wanna see and/or you want to hid from you and/or others. Because, your darkness is not really lovable by you and others.

But, still it is you. The new moon this time is quite good time to see your shadow-self whether you like it or not…

The new moon is encouraging you to embrace your dark side that you do not like.

If you have some difficulties, ask the universe to what the universe is trying to tell you. There are something always you can take away from the situations. The situations you are in is not always what you see from your views. Always, there are some other people and the things we cannot see. If we see something that behind the scene, you might be able to change how you feel, how you react to the situations and more over might change how you see yourself.

The dark side of yourself is quite treasure, just you need to learn how to use them for your and others happinesses. The darkness or things you do not like yourself, is you. You cannot learn from anyone or blaming others things you do not like etc. You have to decide to be happy, and embrace whole you not only your strengths and good things but weaknesses and not so good things.

In the dark sky, you see lots of stars that we usually cannot see with bright moon light. This is the time to see the stars in you. The shadow-self is actually the stars in you. More you embrace these stars in you, your light will be brighter…

The new moon is eventually become full moon in 28 days. Everything is a cycle and this is the time to focus on yourself to find your shadow-self in you and embrace and love yourself more and more…

Healing Journey

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We all have something in our hearts such as good and bad memories. Good memories help us to keep walking where we are heading to. But, bad memories, we should use them wisely to learn, grow, moving to new you etc.

If you wanna use your bad memories and experiences to help you to grow, one thing we can do is face them. It is scary and not pleasant at all, but, if we avoid to see them now, then, we repeat the situations or bring things to feel the same feelings as you have, then, God push you to face them eventually. And, it is not really fun at all as some of you might know. So, if you feel you repeat some events, feelings etc, then, please stop and look at in your heart. What is the trigger for you to feel this, How you feel now, why you feel this, when this start etc.

You might cry, but, it is ok. You got hurt, but, you have tried to walk, kept pushing you to go through and move on. So, just give you a time to stop, reflect, release and rest.

It is a wonderful time to release anything no longer serve you now since full moon is coming soon. Be honest with yourself. No one is laughing at you, or judging you. If you feel you are judged even you do this process by yourself, then, check yourself. You might really hard on you. Be gentle yourself. You always work hard for yourself, so be kind to yourself.

Healing journey is like peeling onions. You peel one layer, then, another one shows up. It seems never ending, but, when you face and heal your major themes in your life time, you will be free from it.

Do not give up. Take your time to do it. healing journey is marathon not sprint. So, take detours and smell roses sometimes, or just relax, sleep or eat etc. It will help you to keep walking. You will be surprised how far you have come in the future and how your life has changed.

It’s just perfect

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Sometimes things are rough. We are in difficult situations, having hard times, and in bad relationships.

We struggle a lot in these situations, and think, worry, depressed…

But, actually it is just perfect.

The situation you are in seems really difficult.

The relationship you have might not really wonderful.

But, it is just perfect for you to learn and grow.

You might have some mean people in your life.

Maybe, you are in place where you don’t like.

It is quite difficult to realize this, and we should get out from toxic situations and relationships, of course. But, once you can realize you see the situations quite differently.

So, you do not have to cry for your past mistakes or bad situations you were or are in, because it was and is for you to become bigger and better person. It was/is just God’s plan for you to grow.

We are like a flower. We need rain. We need sometimes harsh weather or environment to be stronger, and have a beautiful season to bloom.

So, you are just in perfect situation now.

If you realize, you will get some openings and helps for you for new life.