Message of the Autumn Equinox

In the Northern Hemisphere, we officially started autumn season from September 23rd and the day has equally day and night, then, from the day, our night time is getting longer and longer.

The message I got for this Autumn Equinox is

Our society will be more clearly divided into 2 types of people, one in focus on their shadow self unconsciously, and another one is trying to focus on their light part of themselves. Many of us still in between, but if you continually live in fears, angers etc, and if not to try to forgive, or find peace, then, you tend to keep going in the same situation over and over. Many of planets have been retrograded, meaning you have an opportunities to face your fears and angers that hold you back. These retrograde probably brings back some unwanted memories, people or feelings, but if these are coming back, then, please face it. You cannot suppress anymore these things to keep walking. If you are hard to forgive some people and/or situations, ask why you cannot. Usually, you can find some roots cause in you, not them. So, if you can find it, then, let it go. Then, you will feel you can forgive these people and/ or situations little bit easier. This is why forgiveness is for you, not for people hurt you, ultimately. This is really good time to check and let go something no longer serve you for your best.

You can be a light in your family and community. You can be a love that you want and people want. Just choose to be light and love. God will show you the way. Use your inner power wisely to align with love not fears or angers.

Relationship is…

Friend of mine once asked me what relationship is when she had problems with her own fears relate to her boyfriend long time ago.

So, I told her relationship is like two people holding a cup together.

In this case, the cup is not plastic as you can imagine.

Maybe China that really precious and beautiful but sensitive and fragile.

You can imagine how hard to hold a cup with two people.

We need to keep balance, and when one hand gets tired another hand needs to support another hand and make sure to not drop it.

I believe that we can say same thing for our any relationship.

Unfortunately or fortunately, relationship cannot really visible.

This is why often we get misunderstood and makes things complicated.

But, if you imagine that our relationship is a beautiful cup that we wanna treat well and keep the beauty forever, then we know what to do.

Building relationship is taking a time and effort.

Sometimes, maybe not so beautiful, but ugly.

But, everyone involved needs effort to make the relationship works.

We all have egos, prides and fears, but if you know how your cup is precious, then, please think about what is the benefits to keep your egos and how these affect the relationship.

So, please look at your heart to find something that no longer serve your life, and admit and release them to build strong relationship with your loved ones.

You don’t have to be in rush to do that.

But, take one steady step toward to the cup.

If you do that, then, your partner knows how you value your relationship even it takes a time.

And this makes the hands that holding the cup and the cup itself stronger and more beautiful than ever.

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NIV)

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭4:9-12‬ ‭NIV‬‬