Victor or Victim

When life is not easy or sweet, we can really easily become a victim of life. Complaining everything what you have experienced , blaming other people who put you in the situation etc. I believe we all experience this kind of mindset and some kind of dark night. Usually, people can get out of this mindset eventually, but, some people keep complaining everything and as if they try to act like they are a victim of thier life or someone. As if always their external circumstances make them think or feel they are victims.

This is the same as if you are happy or not. Yes, when we have something, when we are in a good situation, of course we are happy. But, even your circumstances are not ideal, you can be happy, and even when you seem you have everything many people still are not happy.

Why? Because, happiness is coming from within you. Not from outside.

When you can appreciate and happy what you have now, you usually have peace in you and happy with your life. But, when you cannot see what you have and blessings you have now, then, you focus on your lack not blessings and this leads you unease and always you are lack everything even you have what you wanted, and not happy. Because you don’t have anything that satisfy you.

Once you realize the things you have now and thank what you are given, then, you are in happiness, not in lack mentality. You can start next challenge from fulfilled feelings.

It is the same to get out of victim mentality. You are not a victim but you decide you are. Look at what you have and what you have experienced, you will find something good in your life. Do you want to enjoy the good things you have or you want to chase a ghost to fulfill your egos to prove someone or something that you cannot prove?

You might have some hard time, but, know that you and your life decide what you want to experience. So,, you acknowledge this and say you are not a victim but a victor to overcome your problems. Look your blessings rather than your lack. Grass is always greener on the other side if you always see until you see good things you have and look inside of you and know your grass is always green and just perfect green for you.

Once you realize this you will become a victor of your life. Our life is not a race to compete with others but a journey to grow our soul.

We are all connected from 2022 to 2023

Time flies and we are already at the end of 2022. This year has been heard to many people, and so many things have happened in this world. Some of you probably worry about your future and might devastated the situations you are in…some might have so much hopes in your future. We are different so, what stages of our lives are completely different.

The message for you from God,

“Believe in yourself. What you have been going through , whether you like it or not, is for you. Not always you walk the path easy and rosy, but the things you feel difficult, impossible etc are also gifts from God for you to stretch and mold you to become next level of you. So, not discouraged but rejoice what you are going through. It is not easy to do, but remember what you have. If you cannot remember, I remind you that you are breathing now. You are alive. You have life. If you are grateful what you have now, then, you can go through this difficult situations you are in. When you feel you cannot go through this, then, remember you are not alone. I am with you all the time. I am walking with you and support you. Call me when you are weary. Call me when you want to give up. I am with you, so do remember that. You are always protected and guided. You are precious, my child, remember that. What you are going through is not easy but not impossible to go through. You will see the light at the end of this darkness sooner than you think. Everything has time, and your new life will be revealed soon. Keep your hope and have faith. There is a reason what you are going though, so do not worry anything about your future. Your future will be brighter than you feel now.

If you feel amazing about your life now, then, keep walking with gratitude, and spread your love to the world. Count your blessings and appreciate people who walked and paved your way before you, and be proud yourself that you have achieved where you are now. I am proud of you, my child.

We are all united. You might not see in this way, but when you see everything from the above, it is all connected. Step back and see big picture, then, you will understand what you are going through and why you have things you have. “

Wish you 2023 will be fabulous year for you all!

We are all connected

Time flies and we are already at the end of 2022. This year has been heard to many people, and so many things have happened in this world. Some of you probably worry about your future and might devastated the situations you are in…some might have so much hopes in your future. We are different so, what stages of our lives are completely different.

The message for you from God,

“Believe in yourself. What you have been going through , whether you like it or not, is for you. Not always you walk the path easy and rosy, but the things you feel difficult, impossible etc are also gifts from God for you to stretch and mold you to become next level of you. So, not discouraged but rejoice what you are going through. It is not easy to do, but remember what you have. If you cannot remember, I remind you that you are breathing now. You are alive. You have life. If you are grateful what you have now, then, you can go through this difficult situations you are in. When you feel you cannot go through this, then, remember you are not alone. I am with you all the time. I am walking with you and support you. Call me when you are weary. Call me when you want to give up. I am with you, so do remember that. You are always protected and guided. You are precious, my child, remember that. What you are going through is not easy but not impossible to go through. You will see the light at the end of this darkness sooner than you think. Everything has time, and your new life will be revealed soon. Keep your hope and have faith. There is a reason what you are going though, so do not worry anything about your future. Your future will be brighter than you feel now.

If you feel amazing about your life now, then, keep walking with gratitude, and spread your love to the world. Count your blessings and appreciate people who walked and paved your way before you, and be proud yourself that you have achieved where you are now. I am proud of you, my child.

We are all united. You might not see in this way, but when you see everything from the above, it is all connected. Step back and see big picture, then, you will understand what you are going through and why you have things you have. “

Wish you 2023 will be fabulous year for you all!

Weekly Message 12/2-12/8

It feels I am still in November, but the last month of the year, December, just started.

It is still Shadow phase of Mercury Retrograde technically, but, I feel much smoother than week before.

And, when I tune into this month, then, I already see lots of fireworks in the sky over some river.

So, I believe that many of us can have some festive weeks toward next year.

Well, of course, usually before close this year, it is busier than other months and everything moves quite quickly.

So, let’s just tighten your seatbelt and follow the speed.

The message I got for this week is “let’s check what you have achieved this year so far to prepare for new phase of your life.”

Achievement does not need to be really big thing.

We should find something we have achieved in our regular life.

Such as started meditation and keep meditating since you started, changed your diet healthier to maintain your health, back to school to learn something you wanted to study, maybe you got baby, or your kids graduated from schools, or you got some better job, or quit your job to start living your own life etc.

You can find something like this more than you think.

If you can find your achievements, you will realize how you are blessed.

And, you can also find something you want to achieve next.

Doing this also will find your passion again and you also might find your lost dreams.

So, let’s try to write down what we achieve this year.

Have a beautiful week!

Weekly Message 11/18-11/24

Mercury Retrograde is almost finish, I hope you have had a good reflection time and meet some old friends during this time of period.

I feel this time of Mercury Retrograde, I have had a good healing experiences. Old wounds have come up, but, they were ready to go. So, even some points I had a hard time to release, this time it was easier, thanks to Mercury Retrograde.

Releasing old wounds is not scary things, just you might need some courage to see and feel again what you experienced in the past. Once you release, you are free from the past.

So, don’t be scared when your old pains come up. It is just a sign that you are ready to release.

The message I got for this week is “Gratitude. Appreciate what you have and what you don’t have now.”

I think this message is quite good timing for this week since Thanksgiving Day is just around the corner.

We easily forget to thank what we have and think we have nothing.

But, is it true?

Happiness is choice, so if you only focus and see what you don’t have, the , you cannot be happier anytime soon.

But, when you appreciate what you have and what even you don’t have, the life is much brighter.

And, here is law of attraction, if you appreciate your life, you will attract more things you will appreciate.

So, say thank you for what you have and you don’t have now. And, say thank you to people in your life for both good and bad.

Even you have some people who give you difficult time, they are giving you some lessons that you need to learn. And they chose the roles to be hated. So, thank to them, too, in your heart.

So, Thank Everything in your life this week.

Have a lovely week!

Weekly Message 3/4-3/10

New moon will be this week, so some people might be affected by the energy this week. Maybe, you feel tired, sleepy, overwhelmed etc. These might be from the energy of the new moon. So, take a rest and slow your life. 🙂

The message I got for this week is “you are filled and will be filled.”

We sometimes don’t feel we have everything we need, but wait. Is it true?

The universe is really generous that you always receive what you need.

If you don’t believe it, then, it is a time to trust the universe, God.

I understand that it is difficult to surrender, but if you surrender and believe and trust in the process the universe does for you, you always have what you need.

So, trust God, because you already have enough things for your life and you will always have anything you need.

Have a great week!!