If you have a family/parents/siblings you wanna see every holiday, then, you are blessed. Every family has some kind of problems, but if you still want to see them,then, you should be happy.

If you are from abusive family, then, you are not alone. I am also the one. If your family member well hide their true natures, then, not many people can understand, and usually quite hard for other people to resonate with your problems, because your problems might out of the box type of problems to other people. Family is the first and only world for babies and infants. So, usually, what they see, experience and learn from it, it is their whole and only world until they see different types of families in their lives. So for people from abusive families, what they experienced is the normal things for them and they might not realize that their experiences should not be happened to them.

Even among siblings, what they experience is different, because we all have different life purpose to be here. One might be have looks like normal life, but one might have break their ancestral karmic ties. If so, this one tend to have harder life than other siblings.

They are usually perceived as a black sheep, a trouble child, rebellious etc. They might not know their mission to be here, but usually they are here to change their family cultures to relate old patterns and welcome new patterns. If you are the one, or someone in your family is like that, then, you might understand. How difficult to understand what they are doing. They usually are isolated from their family if you get what they need to do or feel uncomfortable.

If you have a family member of like this, then, please think why they do what they do before you try to fix them. If you are the one, then, ask yourself what you are doing and what you want to bring into your life and family line. It is ok to be different from your family because we are always individual. Your life is not the same as your parents or siblings. This is your life. You can choose and design your own life to be happy even your family is not happy about it.

If your friends have problems with their family, then, you do not have to understand them but, please do not judge them. It is quite hard for them to live with the experiences. In any religious teachings, it always teaches that you mush respect your parents. But, if you are in abusive environment, then, leave first, then, protect yourself first and start respect and honor yourself. You do not have to feel guilty to be separate from your family if you are suffering, or you do not need to forgive them until you are ready, and even you could forgive them, you can isolate from them. And, please do not give up on yourself. You tend to have tougher life than usual. Ask your friends or God to send a help and nurture yourself with your love.

I do understated it takes a lot of times, but just do not give up on you, because you deserve healthy happy life with love from others, and please know that your experiences could help other people in the future. God and angels are always with you and watch over you.