Life is not a race who is win or lose, or how fast you can achieve your goals etc. life we have is a journey and we learn many things along the way, but not competing with others.
Our life is more like how you create harmony in your life and with others. If you always compete, then, one day you might win but one day you might lose. Our life is not like that.
We, of course, argue or fight with people, but, at the end, try to find peace and to create harmony.
In that way, you will find some fruits from it. If you always try to win, you always find only ashes and filled with empty satisfactions that will be gone eventually.
You don’t have to win or lose, but be in harmony. What we learn on this earth while we are here is how to play symphonies with others and with your life. Whether you like music or not, harmonious music makes you feel comfortable, soothing, calm, happy etc…your life is also becoming a beautiful music when you intend to have harmony in your life than competition.
Try hard to not to win but to create harmony in you and in your life. Then, you will be much happier.

