Family

If you have a family/parents/siblings you wanna see every holiday, then, you are blessed. Every family has some kind of problems, but if you still want to see them,then, you should be happy.

If you are from abusive family, then, you are not alone. I am also the one. If your family member well hide their true natures, then, not many people can understand, and usually quite hard for other people to resonate with your problems, because your problems might out of the box type of problems to other people. Family is the first and only world for babies and infants. So, usually, what they see, experience and learn from it, it is their whole and only world until they see different types of families in their lives. So for people from abusive families, what they experienced is the normal things for them and they might not realize that their experiences should not be happened to them.

Even among siblings, what they experience is different, because we all have different life purpose to be here. One might be have looks like normal life, but one might have break their ancestral karmic ties. If so, this one tend to have harder life than other siblings.

They are usually perceived as a black sheep, a trouble child, rebellious etc. They might not know their mission to be here, but usually they are here to change their family cultures to relate old patterns and welcome new patterns. If you are the one, or someone in your family is like that, then, you might understand. How difficult to understand what they are doing. They usually are isolated from their family if you get what they need to do or feel uncomfortable.

If you have a family member of like this, then, please think why they do what they do before you try to fix them. If you are the one, then, ask yourself what you are doing and what you want to bring into your life and family line. It is ok to be different from your family because we are always individual. Your life is not the same as your parents or siblings. This is your life. You can choose and design your own life to be happy even your family is not happy about it.

If your friends have problems with their family, then, you do not have to understand them but, please do not judge them. It is quite hard for them to live with the experiences. In any religious teachings, it always teaches that you mush respect your parents. But, if you are in abusive environment, then, leave first, then, protect yourself first and start respect and honor yourself. You do not have to feel guilty to be separate from your family if you are suffering, or you do not need to forgive them until you are ready, and even you could forgive them, you can isolate from them. And, please do not give up on yourself. You tend to have tougher life than usual. Ask your friends or God to send a help and nurture yourself with your love.

I do understated it takes a lot of times, but just do not give up on you, because you deserve healthy happy life with love from others, and please know that your experiences could help other people in the future. God and angels are always with you and watch over you.

Choose Love- New Moon Message

Do you feel as if you are surrounded by lots of problems? Do you feel like problems or troubles come to you endlessly?

Then, please know that you have good things also in your life, but you cannot realize because you focus on your problems. So, please change your focus on good things in your life and do things from love over angers or fears from now on while you are tackling your situations. Appreciate what you have. Grateful that your lessens of your situations.

When you change your perspective toward your situations and life, your life will be changing gradually and you will feel more happiness and peace in you.

Your life will be brighter than you feel now. Enjoy your life now on this earth at this moment.

Anyway, this is your time to shine

This is for people who are discouraged and disappointed.

People say whatever they wanna say about you from their views.

So, shine anyway.

Be you anyway.

“If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway.

If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies: Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank people will try to cheat you: Be honest anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight: Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous of you: Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten by tomorrow: Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway.”

Mother Teresa

Anyway

This is for people who are discouraged and disappointed.

People say whatever they wanna say about you from their views.

So, shine anyway.

Be you anyway.

“If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway.

If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies: Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank people will try to cheat you: Be honest anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight: Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous of you: Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten by tomorrow: Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway.”

Mother Teresa

Heaven on the earth

Heaven on the earth might be everyone’s idea world, but sounds difficult to create?

Well, I do not say it is easy, because I was really wondering when I heard this long time ago, like how I can create heaven on the earth or in my life?

Well, it is not easy to imagine about the heaven.

But, I have a story that I was told in my childhood.

This is the story written by a monk to tell about heaven and hell and the differences between these places.

In the heaven and the hell, there are restaurants like on the earth.

Long table and lots of foods on the table.

In the hell, there are many people whose left hands are chained to chairs and right hands, they have 1m long spoon.

They are really skinny like only skins and bones, and hungry even they have lots of foods on the table.

Well, you can easily imagine that it is quite difficult to use 1m long spoon to eat anything.

You cannot bring any food by 1m long spoon to your mouth.

Yes, they cannot eat, this is why they are so skinny and hungry even they have lots of tasty foods.

Moreover, they starts fighting over the foods.

The other hand, in the heaven, well, people there also chained their left hands to chairs and 1m long spoon in their right hands.

But, they look happy and smiling.

Looks healthy even they are in the same conditions people in the hell.

Why?

Because, when meal time starts, they feed other people using their 1m long spoon.

The spoon is too long to bring foods to your mouth, but easier to feed foods to other people who are at the point of 1m spoon.

So, everyone help each other to eat.

This is why people in the heaven is happy.

So, back to our life.

It is the same thing as the story.

We can help each other to grow or fight each other to be down.

So, when you want to create heaven on the earth, help and support other people, love your neighbors, kind to strangers…

Then, you will find that you are in the heaven on the earth.

As you know we can easily see the hell on the earth in these days.

People in the hell in the story are like people with only egos and living in fears and fights.

If you living in Love, then, you have more opportunities to expand your world like people in the heaven.

If you constantly living in fears, then, you have more opportunities to limit your life.

Do you want to be in the heaven or the hell?

Only you can decide and create.

God contacts me to tell this story to people over and over recently, so, I hope you find some secrets of life by the story.

Weekly Message 12/16-12/22

Happy Holidays to everyone!

Christmas is around the corner and cheerful energies are all over the world to cerebrate of this holiday season.

Christmas is the day when Jesus Christ was born in this world to save us.

The message for this week is ” To spread your love and kindness to the world”

Whether you cerebrate Christmas or not, there are many people who need your love and kindness at this moment.

It does not matter who she/he is.

This person might be your friend.

Might be your neighbors.

Might be your child’ friend.

Or, homeless people

Or a stranger you met on a station or street.

It does not matter who, when, and how.

Show your love to the world.

In Northern hemisphere, we are in winter season and it is cold outside.

So, why not give some warmth to people beyond your loved ones.

Even if you are in warm or hot weather, when people do not feel love, their hearts are cold.

Why not warm them up with your love.

There is a door that almost open to see hope.

So, in this week, spread your love to see the hope you want to see in your life and live in Love and act from love not in and from your fears.

Have a happy week!

 

 

Weekly Message 3/11-3/17

I got message for this week.

The message is “review your life what you need and need to change, release and renew.

Mercury is now retrograding till March 27/28.

So, it is really good time to look at your inside.

Our emotions and feelings are like onion skins.

Even we think we peeled all of the skins, there are some until you find the core.

So, I understand it is long journeys.

But, we want to do that to find real you.

Is there anything situations or patterns that you always encounter or in?

Then, this is the sign that you need to dig deeper.

Why, what and when is the origin.

It is like flowing bread crumbs.

You might need lots of time or to follow for a long time, but, you will find the origin.

It is not always what you think.

It is not always you are the reason why the situations are in front of you.

Like just one word from some friends, siblings, parents or teachers.

So, let’s try to step by step.

One step at a time.

It is ok, sometimes you can take a rest.

But, if you wanna change your life to happier or better, you might wanna try and keep walking anyway to find true you.

Don’t hide yourself.

Just come out from inside.

And, shine.

People, who are for you, are waiting for you to shine. And, there are people for you.

So, let’s dig into deeper!

Have a beautiful week!

Merry Christmas!

Christmas is a magical day.

Even you have something to worry about, you might have think about, you might be stressed out etc…you can forget about these for little while.

Christmas is to cerebrate Jesus Christ’s birth.

And, when he was born, we have received love and hope from God.

So, make a wish on this special day for the world, you and your loved ones to have peace, love and blessings.

Merry Christmas!!

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

‭‭John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭NIV‬‬

When God is talking to you

It is simple.

You see, hear, encounter same sentence, story, things over and over till you realize that He is talking to you.

So, pay attention when you see same phrases or things over and over or hear same theme many times.

I was taught at my church I should appreciate everything, even things not turn to your favors or even you are in difficult place.

Yeah, it is easy to say.

I was taught about appreciation so many times at the church.

Then, one day, I went to another church for evening service, because I wanted to see and sing Gospel, then, Pastor started telling about Appreciation as his preach.

I was not in good situation at that time.

But, obviously what God wanted to tell me was appreciate where you were now, thank the situation I was in.

So, I said to God.

Understood.

And, tried to appreciate everything and the situation I was in.

It took time to fully appreciate the situation I was in, but good thing is I am able to thank everything I have now, where I am and what I do.

So, listen to what God wants to tell you, then, you will find amazing gifts God gives you.

God always give you a way to heal your wounded heart and bring you great love.