When God is talking to you

It is simple.

You see, hear, encounter same sentence, story, things over and over till you realize that He is talking to you.

So, pay attention when you see same phrases or things over and over or hear same theme many times.

I was taught at my church I should appreciate everything, even things not turn to your favors or even you are in difficult place.

Yeah, it is easy to say.

I was taught about appreciation so many times at the church.

Then, one day, I went to another church for evening service, because I wanted to see and sing Gospel, then, Pastor started telling about Appreciation as his preach.

I was not in good situation at that time.

But, obviously what God wanted to tell me was appreciate where you were now, thank the situation I was in.

So, I said to God.

Understood.

And, tried to appreciate everything and the situation I was in.

It took time to fully appreciate the situation I was in, but good thing is I am able to thank everything I have now, where I am and what I do.

So, listen to what God wants to tell you, then, you will find amazing gifts God gives you.

God always give you a way to heal your wounded heart and bring you great love.

Forgiveness 

When we are hurt by others, then, we usually get angry, feel sad, dessapointed, betrayed, etc…easily go to some dark places.

How much you hurt is almost equal to how much you cannot forgive the people or situation.

Many people store these feelings for a long time, and live in these feeling and memories.

But, is it really good for us?

Living in unforginess is not good.

Each time, you see the people or in the similar situation, then your feelings come up.

Yes, these protect us, too in order to prevent get hurt again.

But, then, we close our heart, stop trusting people, put ourselves more miserable states. 

So, try to forgive the people you hurt, the situations make you sad or embarrassed etc, and then forgive yourself who cannot forgive these till now.

Forgiving someone is not equal to you need to get along with someone who hurt you.

You don’t have to be with them. 

Forgiving someone and something is for you.

You don’t have to feel again the same feeling that you experienced.

After forgive completely, then, you can keep peace in your mind even when you see these who hurt you.

Storing hurts, pains, sadness, betrayal, etc is not good for you and your health.

These feelings hurt your body and easily steal your smiles. 

So, try to forgive some people who hurt you and situations that force you to be in dark places.

Because, you do not deserve these.

So, forgiving them to get more happiness in your life.

And, your happiness is the most important thing for your life.