We human being tend to try to be perfect and compare to other people and disappointed by what you find in others and not in you. Some people, then, start being aggressively attacking to others or themselves, or trying to proof they are superior to others etc… Is it good thing? Answer is no.
In any religious teaching, I believe they tell you being humble. Is it difficult for you? Probably, answer is yes to many, and it is quite normal, so do not blame yourself. But, why it is difficult to be humble? Is this because you give up what you have, your effort, time etc? Please put your hands on your heart to ask yourself, if you think it is difficult for you to be humble. Being humble is not losing something or something you did. It is just accept the fact that you know what your talents, gifts and strengths, and also weaknesses. Why? Because, your weakness are someone’s strengths. Things that you cannot do by yourself, but someone can do or do with them. We cannot do everything by ourselves, as we all know, but we want to think we can do everything can be handled by ourselves. But, it is not true.
In Bible, there is a scripture to tell about church as a body of Jesus Christ. Explaining how church can work under one spirit with one body with many members. We are all under the universe and no matter where you live or you believe, we are the one. Meaning, it is like our body. Maybe, you are eyes, and some others are nose etc. Eye cannot smell roses if there is not nose how sweet they smell. Nose cannot see roses how beautiful they are without eyes. So, we, human beings, are like that. None of us is the same, but we are different and have different gifts to support each other to complete our society, which is like our body.
So, if you think in that way, then, we are not superior to anyone, but just different, and if you were not here, it is not perfect as a body. Being humble is you realize these differences and just appreciate the things other people do for you.
So, if you are part of our body, it means you do not need to focus on what you cannot do or do not have, because you have different things than others. Please focus what you have and you can and appreciate your gifts from God. Then, eventually, you will be more humble than now and won’t struggle to be, then, your life will be changed.